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Bestseller now out in paperback with a new chapter on Dating Games Men Play!!!
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Hi there,,
"You're so fat!" "Look at that wrinkle!" "You are getting so old!"
We would never say these things to a friend. Yet, what happens when we look in a mirror? Quite the OPPOSITE. We say all these things and much worse...
So here is the first Love in 90 Days Lesson. It's the one thing that you must do, first and foremost, to create the love you want...
THE Ultimate Secret For Attracting Men
"Be to yourself as you would to your friend." -Shakespeare, Henry VIII
It is hard to find a companion who is going to treat you better than you treat yourself. One may come along, but you will quickly dump him because it all feels like too much. Until years pass and you realize exactly what you lost. Maybe you have had that experience. You know what I mean.
The amount of love you can tolerate from a partner is going to be equal to the amount of love you give yourself. This means you have to get rid of that running inner commentary, that says I'm not good enough, thin enough, successful enough (fill in the blank with your worst self-criticism). And when you do, a wonderful partner will come to you.
You need to turn your attention to yourself; to stopping the negative self-talk about being too old, too fat, too whatever. You can defeat the critical internal saboteur that leads to picking men who are not choosing you. Who are not right for you. Who BETRAY you. So that you can ATTRACT the right guys and KEEP a terrific partner.
Inside each one of us is an innocent, lovable self, just waiting to be discovered. If you are quiet long enough and sit with yourself, you will discover a beautiful ineffable essence that Kahlil Gibran calls, "a fragment of the Divine." And I want you to treat yourself accordingly. I know being a this may be hard to relate to--like an impossible task for YOU--because of the negative chatter in your head, the feelings of fear about getting out there...the anxiety when you meet a terrific single man can be overwhelming. If you just know you need back-up, help and deep emotional support in truly loving yourself and becoming confident about dating, I have great news--Now for the very first time you can work one-on-one with a handpicked Love Mentor who has used the Love in 90 Days principles to get happily married. Each mentor is a seasoned transformational coach who is directly supervised by me. She or he can help you beat the inner self-sabotage so you can discover and live from that part of your identity that isself-nurturing and charismatic. An incredibly powerful way to make your love dreams come true! And for a limited time, you can have a free session by phone or Skype. But hurry, the time slots are filling up fast. Contact me ASAP at
www.lovein90days.com/contact/ if you are interested.
OK so our first step in our journey together is this: Fall in love with yourself and then you will find the love you seek. When you treat yourself well, you will choose partners who love you. As within, so without. This is the ultimate secret for attracting men.
How do I do that you ask? Well, in the paperback version of my bestselling book, Love in 90 Days, I describe four powerful techniques for discovering and honoring your highest self, what I call the Diamond Self. My own mission has been to help others develop their Diamond Self because that is the royal road to Love. So here is a SUPER POWERFUL way to start building that magical part of yourself so that you can begin attracting only those men who highly value you. This process will take only 15 minutes or so but it will change your life.
Think back to when you were an infant, toddler or young child--when you were all smiles, alive and in the moment. You were born with innocence, natural curiosity and joy in the world. The original you was a fully present, adorable little being, in touch with all of her blissful feelings and naturally assertive and self-expressed.
When you were that sweet child running around, what did you enjoy? Was it the running around, or cooking on your Fisher Price play stove? Maybe it was sitting still staring at a bumble bee. Were you a big talker or a chubby witness who sat on your potty throne and took it all in? Did you love to finger paint? Think back and remember that early time when you were free to play and explore the world. What were you like? This is a time before you were boxed in by your parents' and society's expectations, fears, and neuroses. Before you were ignored, shamed or told you were bad. Before the limitations and fears set in.
Chances are all those early traits are still with you, in their grown-up manifestations. And they are all utterly you and OK. In fact, they are charming, even captivating. But they may be entirely hidden.
I have an old photo of myself from that innocent first era, before I closed down my heart and got shy to the point of being mute. It shows a cherubic three year-old in a beloved park where I used love to race around and climb all the rocks. I am sitting in the dirt, grinning wide-eyed at the camera, posing with joy and confidence, an impish tomboy in my dirty polka-dot dress. I keep the picture by my computer and look at it with great appreciation almost every day. That is me. In fact, when I watched myself on The Today Show recently, I giggled outright because I caught the tomboy imp in a dress staring back at me from the TV set.
Now take out a photo of yourself as a toddler or baby--you in all your innocence - that child who was born whole, perfect and beautiful. Put it near your computer or somewhere else where you can look at it several times a day. As you look at it, notice how wonderful, incredible, truly lovable that child is. For one second at a time, glance at the photo and prize that child who is you.
Amazing right? Remember to prize that being daily so that you attract a man who will do so also. In this course you will learn the secrets of loving couples, that they prize each other way more than they criticize each other. So start now learning how to be a loving partner to yourself. Know and celebrate your unique gifts. Then use some of the practical how-to steps in Love in 90 Days to skyrocket your dating online and off-line, and you will have a terrific partner celebrating along with you soon!
Next week's lesson explores the minds of GUYS and the DATING GAMES MEN PLAY.
Wishing you great love,
PS 1 - Remember, if you want ongoing support-- Now for the very first time you can work one-on-one with a handpicked Love Mentor who has used the Love in 90 Days principles to get happily married. Each mentor is a seasoned transformational coach who is directly supervised by me. An incredibly powerful way to make your love dreams come true! And for a limited time you can have a free session by phone or Skype. But hurry, the time slots are filling up fast. Contact me ASAP at http://www.lovein90days.com/contact/ if you are interested.
PS 2 - My bestselling book, Love in 90 Days, deals with busting through shyness by discovering your authentic, charismatic, "Diamond Self" in Chapter 7. The book is the basis of a PBS Special & is out in paperback with a new chapter, Dating Games Men Play (& what to do about them)!!! Available at Amazon.com, Barnes and Noble, Borders and other book stores & on sale with up to 25% off for a limited time only. So get your copy ASAP. And, for a limited time only, I am offering $100 in Bonus Gifts! Go to http://www.lovein90days.com/new-dating-book/ |
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